Learn The Right Way To Bring Kink Into Your Bedroom... Without Ending Up In the Emergency Room, the Police Station or Divorce Court

Limited Spaces for Singles and Couples

Class sizes are strictly limited to just 25 persons so OTKDaddy can give you as much
personal instruction as possible.  Classes fill very quickly so get your tickets while you can.

WORKSHOP

IN THIS 5 HOUR WORKSHOP

Learn The Safe, Sane And Consensual Way into BDSM for Beginners

OTKDaddy will be presenting 3 Workshops on the day, each one designed to build on the knowledge from the previous session.

First we start with the basics…

Workshop 1: BDSM for Beginners 101 (90 mins)

The first 90 minutes are going to be a deep dive into the basics you need to know to enjoy the hot fantasy of BDSM – without needing an ambulance or the paramedics or the police … and without ending up in divorce court!

If you have ever wondered how to be a Dom, either male or female – or how to be a submissive – then this workshop is for you.

We will cover:

  • What is Consent and how can it be sexy and spontaneous?
  • Learning the difference between Dominance and Domineering – 

… so you can spot a toxic relationship a mile off, and get out of it!

  • What is a ‘Dynamic’ and is it the same as a ‘Relationship’
  • Is Vanilla a brand of ice-cream?
  • Do I really have to wear this collar thing? What’s that all about?
  • SSC, RACK, Scene, Play Partner – please decode the jargon for me so I can play safe
  • What is a Safe Word and when do I use it? Does it mean I have failed?
  • How to create ‘Space’ for a scene
  • The structure of a Scene – Before, During, Ending and Aftercare
  • How to manage Sub Drop and Top Drop (Yes Dom’s get ‘drop’ too)

Then we move into the more advanced areas and get our hands on some equipment, so you can learn the actual techniques and skills to play safely.

Workshop 2: Hands On Workshop (90 mins)

It’s time to get HANDS ON! This is where you will get familiar with the various implements we use, including whips, floggers, canes, paddles and feather dusters.

  • Impact Play Basics
  • Warm Up and After Care
  • Rituals and ‘Setting the Space’
  • How to ‘Hold Dominant Space’ for beginners
  • Cleaning Up and Equipment Care
  • Meet My Amazing Cross
  • Cuffs, restraints and being locked down
  • Spanking techniques to excite and ignite
  • The ‘Sweet Spot’ And How to Find It (yes another ‘spot’ to find)
  • Why canes ‘bite twice’
  • Flogging for warm up, intensity and impact – impress your sub with your dramatic flair skills
  • Single tail whips and high intensity pain sensations
  • Sharp edges and points for immediate focus and endorphins
  • How to take your sub on a ‘roller coaster’ – its not all about the impact!

Feel free to bring your own toys if you like, but there will be a full selection of implements to explore with on hand.

Workshop 3: Loving Partners in Kink (90 mins)

Not everyone starts their journey with the luxury of having a supportive, understanding and kinky partner, so here’s where we explore the best way to introduce kink into your life and bedroom.

  • How to bring kink into your bedroom without causing a fight or ending up in divorce court!
  • What if you are kinky but your partner isnt interested?
  • What to do when your kinks are not compatible?
  • Opening up negotiation and exploring limits
  • What is 24/7 Total Power Exchange and is it for you?
  • What to expect at a Play Party – at someone’s private residence
  • What to expect at a Public Party
  • Behaviour and etiquette at Events
  • Safe Dates for meeting new Play Partners

Extended Question and Answers

Although we will be answering your questions throughout, the remaining time at the end is when OTKDaddy can zero in on the specific issues or questions you are facing. Setting off on your kink journey is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely hard coming out to a partner or family or friends. We set this time aside to listen to your situation and come up with workable solutions for you to apply in your own life.

A snack and refreshment bar is available throughout.

CLASS SIZE STRICTLY LIMITED TO 25 PERSONS ONLY

Previous Attendees wishing to attend this event please email team@clubfreak.com.au to be added to the Guest List.

Limited Spaces for Singles and Couples

Class sizes are strictly limited to just 25 persons so OTKDaddy can give you as much
personal instruction as possible.  Classes fill very quickly so get your tickets while you can.

OTKDADDY

WHO IS OTKDADDY

That’s me in the first pic above, on stage at Club Freak.

I have been active in the BDSM Lifestyle scene since 2004 when I was living in Los Angeles. After fronting up at the North Hollywood Dungeon I met Master Kane and spent a long time learning with him and the Lair de Sade community there.

I spent many years with my mentor Sick Uncle Freddy (second pic with me in the middle, and Tim Polecat from the Polecats on the right – taken at LA Bondage Ball in 2005), who was one of the most respected male Doms in the LA area.

He was a leading performer and educator in the BDSM scene and an infamous sadist, often being flown to conventions to perform such as DomCon, AVNAwards, Hedonism I and II in the Bahamas and many more.

His passing is a loss to me personally, and to the community. It was an honour to learn from him for so many years.

I count among my influences and close personal friends many respected teachers and performers from California such as Sir Nik Satanis from DV8, Sir Orpheus Black from House of Pain, Mistress Erszbet, Mistress Marina from Bar Sinister, Masuimi Max (3rd pic) and Rubberdoll (4th pic) and many more.

In fact it is entirely due to the influence these incredible people and experiences have had on me that I began Club Freak here in Perth in 2012 with the help of my sub at the time Isabeau.

We made the decision to incorporate a short BDSM101 into every event we do as Club Freak, and it’s something I continue to do to this day.

I have also lectured on BDSM at Sexpo running the Fetish Room twice in 2015 and 2017 with over 2500 people visiting our stand in 2017 alone. I have presented intro classes at Curtin Uni Sex Week, been interviewed multiple times for press and zines as well as being invited to intimate fireside chats with House of Theodora.

My sole aim is to provide the most complete and immersive introduction that I can, so you walk away with a deeper understanding of your kink and the confidence to go forward and explore 🙂

Limited Spaces for Singles and Couples

Class sizes are strictly limited to just 25 persons so OTKDaddy can give you as much
personal instruction as possible.  Classes fill very quickly so get your tickets while you can.

"Very welcoming and inclusive environment full of fun-loving kinksters. Do not miss these events, they are 🔥🔥🔥"

- KARA